How to keep your boyfriend when you get him back

Are you going through the aftermath of a breakup right now? Maybe the breakup occurred because you accused him of making sheep's eyes at some other woman. Maybe he did, maybe he didn't, but now you want him back anyway.

If you are regretting the breakup, and want your boyfriend back, you will get him back - just work yourself into the right mindset and take up the proper strategy.

And once you get your man back, you may just want to consider another issue: how are you going to make sure he stays? How are you going to prevent any further breakups?

Here's something that will most probably startle you: chances are high your boyfriend didn't stray because he found somebody else hot, willing and young, somebody with physical attributes you have grown out of.

Chances are your boyfriend developed lateral vision because like all men, he was craving admiration from the women in his life, and he felt that you weren't gushing over him enough. The truth is most men - especially those who feel they don't get enough admiration at home - get into affairs with "other" women who make them feel like they are the last word in manhood.

It's like this: most men's hormones work such that if they don't feel admired by their women, they become prey for any woman who comes along and makes a play at them. It matter what that woman's physical attributes are. If she knows how to play up to the guy's vanity, she will probably get her way.

Consider this situation: a man feels neglected at home, but his female colleagues at work are always telling him how smart he is... how dashing.. how handsome. They are boosting his ego which is taking a beating at home - at least according to his own perception. So what do you think is going to happen?

When a guy's gal has the knack of making him feel like he's the man, she's going to keep her relationship with him safe from all competition, because she's putting up "anti-competition" armor around it.

And so she's keeping herself safe from the possibility of some slinky competitor somewhere slithering away with her man.

If you are regularly telling your guy how great he is, he will do just about anything to keep your admiration, and to maintain your relationship at peak health.

Hope that helps. Now go ahead and win your boyfriend back.

Vanity is so secure in the heart of man that everyone wants to be admired:  even I who write this, and you who read this.  – Blaise Pascal

Use a secret ingredient you already have to get back together with your ex

Are you gritting your teeth through the aftermath of a recent breakup?  Do you know you already possess the secret ingredient that can show you how to get your ex back quickly?


Harness this ingredient, and you won’t have to mope around much longer driving yourself and your friends and family crazy over how to get back together with your ex.


Discover just what to do going ahead if you …


•    failed miserably in the repeated steps to get your ex back that you took …
•    were working with great hope on this solution first, then that one, then yet another, only to find that your hopes were crushed…
•    are frantic that your chances of winning your ex back into your arms are receding as time goes by …
•    are being told by just about everyone you have been confiding your troubles to that you are chasing a pointless dream, that you should just give it up and get on with your life, and you are sure deep in your heart that they are all wrong.


Easy, now. Take a deep breath, take several. Bring yourself back to earth. Just ask yourself if your desire to get back together with your ex is based on true passion? Are you sure, after everything that has gone by, that your ex is also regretting the breakup, and would be open to reviving your relationship?


Is the answer yes to both questions? There it was: the ingredient that you need to launch some sure steps to get your ex back...


Passion: the super ingredient that will get you exactly what you have been sweating over.


You have got to focus. Rinse out any anger you are feeling. Reject all the pain. Erase the hurt. No more blame games: no more they did this, I didn’t do that, they said this, I never said that…


Zoom in on this thought: “I feel strong passion about getting my ex back, and so, I AM going to get ‘em back”. Throw away the negative feelings that haunted you ever since you broke up with your lover. Key in on the passion in you:  you will find that all of a sudden, your problem is not all that insurmountable. You will be able to focus on just how to get your ex back quickly.


Passion is just the ingredient you need to propel you into steps to get your ex back, steps that will resolve your issues, revive your relationship, get your ex right back into your embrace.


Remember this; if there is no passion, teeny worthless non-issues become major dividing factors. A little bit of jealousy and some over-possessiveness are for the most part companions of genuine passion. Taken too seriously, these feelings can create problems that are molehills made to look like mountains. Taken with a pinch of salt, they become meaningless.


Take up some steps to get your ex back.


Even the president needs passion
Everybody I know needs some passion
-    Rod Stewart, Passion