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"Want my ex back" is probably the response you would give if asked what you want most right now. Are you riding a fragile boat in the maelstrom of a broken relationship?
Your relationship has hit an iceberg. You are feeling titanic pain - you long for the old days. You desperately want to want to know how to get your ex back, and you just are not getting anywhere.
All of your family, friends and well-wishers are dumping full container loads of homilies, axioms and other purportedly unsinkable, well-intentioned suggestions on you.
Probably, according to some of them, you should play hard to get with your ex; soon they will come crawling on their knees back to you.
Maybe some others will advise you to go to the other end of the spectrum: to eat crow, to go on your knees to your ex.
Possibly there is the camp that tells you to maintain a wronged, victimized attitude: shame will bring your ex back, seeking forgiveness.
Perhaps there are those who tell you to stay aloof and icy, portraying an I-should-give-a-damn attitude that will draw your ex back out of pique.
And, of course, there are likely those who would tell you to forget it all, and move ahead with your life.
The conundrum is: all of these methods have merit.
The sixty-four thousand dollar question is: which method will work for you - if any one will, that is?
Now, get this straight: Now that the ship looks like it is sinking, it is you - and just you, for all the well wishes of those around you - who must do what needs to be done.
Like with all pain, only the sufferer - you - will actually know where it hurts, only you can fight it.
All the advice in the world is going to be of no use until you find and lock onto your inner strength and resolve. The amazing truth is: your mind is your biggest weapon. Arm your mind, and nuke the obstacles. You will know how to get your ex back.
You can only work on getting your ex back successfully if you make a start with a firm, fearless answer to the primary question: "Am I certain I want my ex back?"
Almost certainly you do, otherwise you wouldn't be looking up articles like this. Once that's settled, here's what you do: Put yourself in a positive, optimistic frame of mind - with the right mind set, with unbreakable determination and perseverance, you will get what you want - your ex back.
Get some inspiration here - as THIS VIDEO tells you, the key to success is perseverance over failure. See this short video several times, let its message and spirit grab hold of you, and you have blown most of the obstacles away!
So there is the broad strategy you are going to employ - you know what you want, you feel good about the whole thing because you know you are going to succeed - and you will succeed! You will fulfill the promise in your life!
There is a tide in the affairs of men
Which taken at the flood, leads on to fortune;
Omitted, all the voyage of their life
Is bound in shallows and in miseries
- William Shakespeare, Julius Caesar
Now you just need to know the specific techniques that will get you what you want.
Discover what you want in The Magic of Making Up. Discover how to get your ex back. There is no real magic. There is no real abracadabra.It is just the spellbinding techniques in The Magic of Making Up where you discover how to get your ex back, and it is just you and your will - switch your thinking from "I want my ex back" to "I'm damn well going to get my ex back!" and there you have it!
It is time to turn the tables. Progress from merely saying "I want my ex back".
- The Digger Papers.
